Thursday, January 15, 2015

January Member of the Month: Kelsie Giles!


Meet Kelsie: a mama who loves to spread the babywearing love! 

Let's start simple; your name, children's names and ages?
Kelsie Giles. My babies are Athena, age 16 months and Evangeline (Evie), age 3 months
How long have you been wearing?
I have been wearing since Athena's birth, but I didn't wear very often at all until she was about 3 months and we got our first Ergo. We started wrapping with a woven when Athena was about 9 months old.

Carrying two!
What led you to babywearing and how has it changed your parenting?
I was interested in babywearing after seeing a few people wearing their babies around town. I decided to start wearing because babies don't like to be put down and sometimes things still need to get done! I think the biggest thing that it has changed since I have been wearing often, is that my babies are constantly a part of what I am doing. If I'm cleaning, they are cleaning right along with me, if I'm cooking one of them is watching over my shoulder. It eliminates the crying baby in the corner in the swing while I hurry to get things done and then go get my baby. For me, it just makes things a lot less stressful because being a Mommy is stressful enough (even though I love it).

Have you had an interesting babywearing experience you'd like to share?
Because I started learning with a woven while I was pregnant with Evie, I had to skip front carries (belly in the way!) and go straight to hip and back carries. That was so challenging. I look back at my first babywearing pictures (specifically of back carries) and I'm afraid for Athena and I laugh at how terrible my wrap job was! I was so proud of those pictures at the time and posted them everywhere. I'm sure in a year or two I will look back on my current pictures in the same way. But it's definitely a journey!

What is your favorite carrier and why do you prefer it?
I love a size 6 woven. I can comfortably do a front or back carry with both of my girls in that size (not at the same time) And I just like the length because it's fun to snuggle with. ;)


Do you feel like you have support from family and friends on wearing your baby?
Definitely! I get a lot of questions about how to babywear from my friends who are mamas and I enjoy sharing the babywearing love. My Mom wears one of my daughters almost every time we go somewhere together and I wear the other one. I have had friends (who don't have their own babies yet) ask to wear my babies too and I have helped them wrap them while we have been hanging out. They always love it and hope to wear their own children someday.


What do you like to spend time doing aside from babywearing and spending time with your kiddos?
Of course I love spending time with my husband! He is my best friend and we always have a great time with or without the babies. I am a huge crochet addict. Even though I don't currently have a lot of time for that, it is one of my passions. I have 2 furry babies (Westies) that I love. And of course shopping for wraps and churning the ones I have has become a big hobby lately.

Sometimes both babies need a good ride
What is your favorite thing about living in Knoxville?
We actually live in Pigeon Forge. :) But I love the community in Knoxville. I have met so many friends through this group and through other local Facebook groups. I just love the atmosphere and the love/mama support available here. 

What's your favorite cartoon from childhood?
I wasn't huge into TV as a child. But I'm sure I watched Lion King about once a week.
 


Gotta have some juicy in every interview right?
Tell us one guilty pleasure of yours? I don't want to sound redundant, but it's probably buying wraps. I have way too many and I still want more! :) :) 


What do you like best about BWI?
The meetings provide a great learning environment as well as a great place to meet other mamas with similar goals (such as snuggling with babies in wraps) 

Toddler time!
What would you like to see in the future with BWI?
I think that everything going on right now is great! I wouldn't really change anything about the group. I'd love to be able to attend more meetings (I've never made it to a night meeting) and I'd love to make it to one of the Mom's night out dinners. My girls pretty much hate riding in the car, so I'm very lucky to even make it to the day meetings once a month. 

What's the cutest habit of your kiddos you feel the need to share with the world?
Athena talks non-stop and I am very proud of her ability to speak in full sentences. I love taking videos of her talking, although she usually stops talking when I'm recording or when we are around other people, of course! And Evie smiles/coos a lot. She hasn't figured out the phone yet, so I've been able to capture quite a few cute videos

Let's be open ended and vague to close: anything else you just want to tell us about yourself?
My husband and I hope to start hiking this spring, so hopefully by then he can become a better back wrapper and we can have endless babywearing family hikes and adventures! (a mama can dream, right?)



Thursday, January 1, 2015

You Know I'm All About Those Buckles

You may see them called soft structured carriers, SSCs, buckle carriers, or even WCFB (wrap conversion full buckle) or WCHB (wrap conversion half buckle). But these back pack style carriers that clip on are probably the most user friendly carrier options there are. Perfect for Dads and great for toddlers that are up and down a lot, these carriers are pretty straight forward, easy to use, and quick. For this reason, they probably don't get talked about enough. So we decided to focus this month on all things buckles! We asked our lovely Volunteer Babywearing Educators a few questions about buckles that will hopefully give you some insight into these great carriers!


Jenny and her wrap conversion with her toddler



Anna Hurley
VBE, Anna's husband carrying their daughter in a WCFB
1. What is your favorite kind/brand of soft structured carrier? Definitely Boba for a little baby. It just fit my body type better than an Ergo. Okay, and I love the Beco Butterfly Original but I can't find one for the life of me
2. In your opinion, what are the benefits to using a SSC? SSCs are great for when people are staring and you are afraid to wrap in front of them in the parking lot.
3. In your opinion, what are the downsides to using a SSC? They are not necessarily a one size fits all type of carrier like say a ringsling or a long wrap.
4. If you could have your dream buckle carrier, what would it be like?  I want a Kinderpack.




Brittany Ridley
1. What is your favorite kind/brand of soft structured carrier? I have a Tula and really love how straight forward and easy it is to use. It's my favorite because it just fits my husband and I so well.
Brittany and her little man in a tula
2. In your opinion, what are the benefits to using a SSC? I like them for fast and easy ups and downs. My husband likes them because they are easy.
3. In your opinion, what are the downsides to using a SSC? I can't always get the weight distribution where I like it for long wearing, but it is usually fine.
4. If you could have your dream buckle carrier, what would it be like? I guess if I could get a Tula with side clips so I could cross the straps I might call that perfect.



Nikki and her little guy with their kinderpack

Nikki Moore
1. What is your favorite kind/brand of soft structured carrier? Kinderpack. I love amount of adjustability and the fit! I love how deep the seat is too.
2. In your opinion, what are the benefits to using a SSC? SSCs are great for quick ups, squirmy toddlers, and for daddies!
3. In your opinion, what are the downsides to using a SSC? Fit varies from person to person. They aren't as versatile.
4. If you could have your dream buckle carrier, what would it be like? I'd love to be able to customize a carrier to exactly how I'd want it to look and function: ability to tighten the straps a tiny bit smaller, possibly a ring waist, slightly narrower straps and some really awesome fabric.



Mary and her older daughter wearing the littles in their tulas


Mary Rodio
1. What is your favorite kind/brand of soft structured carrier? Depends on the stage. I love Becos in general. I really like the Gemini for little babies the most. Followed by the original Butterfly, but because those are impossible to find, I think the Soliel is going to be a great substitute. For bigger babies and toddlers, it's going to be the Kinderpack. The Tula was at the top of that list until I tried the Toddler Kinderpack. It's pretty much love due to the deep deat darts and I find the webbing way more comfortable. 
2. In your opinion, what are the benefits to using a SSC? Benefits of a SSC is the ease of getting it on and off and quickness.
Mary and her daughter in their Beco Gemini
3. In your opinion, what are the downsides to using a SSC?  To me personally, I hate the waist band. I just don't like having things on my midsection generally. A good, proper fitted SSC is tolerable but still not my perferred carrier. They can be hard to get adjusted just right to to find that "sweet spot" for people like me. 
4. If you could have your dream buckle carrier, what would it be like? I love half buckles and ring waists..Does that count? The webbing in my favorite half buckle was very moldable and thin and I really enjoyed that. It would have deep seat darts like the Kinderpack for sure. Straps that can be unbuckled for a hip carry or crossed in the back.



Sarah Murray
1. What is your favorite kind/brand of soft structured carrier? At the moment my favortie SSC is the Kinderpack. The shoulder straps are extra cushy for my big toddler in tow and the seat is amazingly deep. I have one with the optional breathable panal which makes spring and summer wearing much more enjoyable with a thickly padded buckle carrier. Although we loved our Ergo well into 15-18mo the KP suits our needs now with a 3year old. 
Sarah and her daughter with their
Madame GooGoo
 wrap conversion
2. In your opinion, what are the benefits to using a SSC? There are many benefits to an SSC: they are easily and quickly adjustable for front, back, and (some styles) hip carries. Great for toddlers who want up one minute and back down the next. I've personally found SSC's l one of the easiest to discretely nurse in just because of the adjustability and the access of the sleep hood on some models.
3. In your opinion, what are the downsides to using a SSC? Downside not every SSC will fit every body type. Thank goodness there are many options, brands, and styles for our extremely petite mama's to our fluffier mama's as well. Also some models have features others don't such as sleep hoods and straps that unclasp to be able to hip carry in them.
4. If you could have your dream buckle carrier, what would it be like? I think I own my two dream SSC' s already. Between our solar veil KP and a custom wrap conversion Madame GooGoo created carrier I have to say I'm more than stashified when it comes to buckle carriers.

Carrie and her little man in their tula



Carrie Plemons
1. What is your favorite kind/brand of soft structured carrier? I really like my tula. I am tall and my kids are tall, too, and the tula fits our frame better.
2. In your opinion, what are the benefits to using a SSC? I love how quick it is to put my baby up. When they are fussy or if you are running errands and have to do several quick ups and downs, SSC's are great!
3. In your opinion, what are the downsides to using a SSC? The downsides of SSC's are that sometimes it can be hard to get a good fit for all ages. You need an infant insert when they are little, and when they are older, the seat may not be as comfortable.
4. If you could have your dream buckle carrier, what would it be like? I love Oscha's Okinami wrap (the one with the waves on it - I'm a California girl at heart) and would love a toddler wrap conversion made out of that wrap. 


Ashey's Husband rocking a Kinderpack
on a recent adventure

Ashley Teller


1. What is your favorite kind/brand of soft structured carrier? I am a huge Kinderpack fan. They have these amazing deep seats and wide cushy straps. Plus they have the most versatility in my opinion. They have an amazing infant size that has a cinchable seat so you can put baby legs out much earlier than others. Then they have a standard, toddler, and preschool. Plus they have standard or plus straps with Perfect Fit strap adjusters.
Ashley also enjoying the buckles on their
recent family adventure
2. In your opinion, what are the benefits to using a SSC? They are quick and easy. It's definitely my husband's favorite and the best for up and down toddler phase. It's also great for travel.
3. In your opinion, what are the downsides to using a SSC? They're not as adjustable and versatile as others. I don't find them as comfortable as wraps either.
4. If you could have your dream buckle carrier, what would it be like? It would be a wrap conversion Kinderpack and it would have some storage options for keys, phone, and water bottle so I could leave the diaper bag behind.

Some of your leaders enjoying the ease of the buckles

Even the leader's babies can enjoy a good buckle carrier themselves